Written By Keisha Hudson
Relationships are built
on trust them comes love. It’s unfortunate that we are humans and we make
mistakes. You may love a person without fully having trust for your companion.
Well my dear friend, you have to work on that. Sometimes you have to see past
everything that can knock you down. If you truly want your relationship to
work. Then work it, who says you can’t have happiness? It’s time to change that
train of thought. You can have whatever you like because I said so, if you need
a reason.
Trust is the ultimate commitment
that you can give a person. Some people may say once it’s gone you can never
get it back. Oh yes you can, that person will have to prove themselves. And yes
that may mean going above and beyond. But truly you should set realistic
expectations if you really want things to work. Some hurt may cut like a knife.
But truly, if you can get over someone else mistake you will survive.
Love is something you
just don’t walk away from. With the way things are today, you may not find the
opportunity to find true love again. Cheating is everyone nightmare, and your
partner may not want to discuss it with you. But if they truly want the
relationship to last with you. They will give in a little bit and let you in.
Truly they may not want to share juicy details because they know how they hurt
you. And if they really care about you it will hurt them just to share their
indiscretion with you. It’s a bad situation all the way around. But what will
floor your partner is if you can live through their indiscretion and still work
on your relationship. Because it should be the most important thing.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m
not saying don’t punish them. That would be unusual cruelty if you couldn’t fight
back. Most therapist would say use your words. I say don’t use any words at
all. They took the time to lie to you so we know how much words can mean. You
can handle the situation both ways. You can choose to ignore them in the
bedroom, yes sleep in something sexy or naked and tell them no for a few days.
Or completely rip their clothes off and take them. They won’t understand what’s
going on. The cards are in your hands now play them right. Don’t ever let them
know why at that moment in time you had to have them. It’s not that the other
person was better. They were just different, sometimes you have to be
different. But remember in the end you want your relationship, love and trust.
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