Relationships, Trust & Love

Written By Keisha Hudson

 

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Relationships are built on trust them comes love. It’s unfortunate that we are humans and we make mistakes. You may love a person without fully having trust for your companion. Well my dear friend, you have to work on that. Sometimes you have to see past everything that can knock you down. If you truly want your relationship to work. Then work it, who says you can’t have happiness? It’s time to change that train of thought. You can have whatever you like because I said so, if you need a reason.

Trust is the ultimate commitment that you can give a person. Some people may say once it’s gone you can never get it back. Oh yes you can, that person will have to prove themselves. And yes that may mean going above and beyond. But truly you should set realistic expectations if you really want things to work. Some hurt may cut like a knife. But truly, if you can get over someone else mistake you will survive.

Love is something you just don’t walk away from. With the way things are today, you may not find the opportunity to find true love again. Cheating is everyone nightmare, and your partner may not want to discuss it with you. But if they truly want the relationship to last with you. They will give in a little bit and let you in. Truly they may not want to share juicy details because they know how they hurt you. And if they really care about you it will hurt them just to share their indiscretion with you. It’s a bad situation all the way around. But what will floor your partner is if you can live through their indiscretion and still work on your relationship. Because it should be the most important thing.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying don’t punish them. That would be unusual cruelty if you couldn’t fight back. Most therapist would say use your words. I say don’t use any words at all. They took the time to lie to you so we know how much words can mean. You can handle the situation both ways. You can choose to ignore them in the bedroom, yes sleep in something sexy or naked and tell them no for a few days. Or completely rip their clothes off and take them. They won’t understand what’s going on. The cards are in your hands now play them right. Don’t ever let them know why at that moment in time you had to have them. It’s not that the other person was better. They were just different, sometimes you have to be different. But remember in the end you want your relationship, love and trust.

What Submissive Means To Me

What’s So Hot about Role Playing?

Written By Keisha Hudson

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I have found the answer to what’s so hot about role playing? Taking turns and having fun with stepping outside of your comfort zone. Just don’t get hurt in the process. Let me state it clearly, do not jump from a building as if you are spider man or wonder woman! Then the role playing would be over. Seriously, there are so many ways you can introduce this to your relationship. If you’re anything like me, I wouldn’t ask, I would just put the costume on and act the part. No I’m not a paid actress but maybe I should be. For some reason role playing is so awkward at work. Because you are doing it around people you do not trust intimately.

 

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Role playing can be such a turn on for your partner because they get to see a different part of you. Not to mention, they also have the pleasure of returning the favor. My goal for any relationship is to take it to the point of no return. Your partner needs to know that you are the one they can be there free self with. Everyone has obligations that may require a lot from them. Role playing can help stimulate an inner desire that needs to come out sometime. A main key to this is rock they world. At that moment in time, they have the right to cheat on you with you, now how sexy is that?
 

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So what should you be tonight? The hot nurse, naughty doctor, sexy cop, ummm I would go for the submissive accountant. Run those numbers and submit to your partner. Tell him about a stock that interest you and how you can make your partner a lot of money. That’s enough to make any one happy. Beauty and brains is something I live by so let it work for you.

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So You Want A Threesome?

Written By Keisha Hudson

 

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            Now I know almost every man has had this fantasy. Or they have even asked their significant other to role play in this fantasy. It’s great if your partner wants to share their fantasies with you. I know it sounds like a lot when they first initially spring it on you. It might even be like a blow to the heart. But you have to be open minded from both ends. From a woman point of view, she may feel like she is not enough for you. From a man point of view he is inviting the woman he loves to share a part of his world. Every person has seen those talk shows where the guy leaves with the other woman, get her pregnant, or worst expects to pimp her out. I’m here as a neutral party trying to see how can I convert my man into seeing things my way. Cause all three scenarios are my worst nightmares.

            The first time he asked, I threatened to leave so he can have the life that he wants to have with women hanging from the ceiling for all I care. Well as you can see, it’s been years and he is still here. Every time I have ever brought up the scenario to him. He always ignore me because he don’t want to argue. Ever since we have been practicing this BDSM I can’t help but wonder should we indulge into his fantasy? I was like every other woman, just wanting a man to make love to me. And he is the best lover I have ever had. But something inside me wants more, thanks 50 Shades of Grey.  

 

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            Since I’ve been being so submissive to him, I brought up the idea again. I feel like this is the perfect time. The thing I love about being submissive is our communication has gotten so much better. I feel like we can talk about anything. It is definitely working on our trust. I don’t judge him and he don’t judge me. So he is on board with the situation. And I’m all ears, maybe I can hear him this time. I sprung this question on him. Would you mind if our threesome be with you, me and another man? He got so angry, and I told him, “We are just talking about it.” It’s not my desire to be with another man. But I have to make sure that another man is not your expectation if I decide to go along with this. He is still mad, but now he see how it feels when someone ask you to invite another person into your private love affair. For the record, that was the reaction I was looking for from him.

My Beginning into a BDSM Relationship

Written By Keisha Hudson 

 

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I have always walked a fine line between bad and good. In a healthy relationship that can be pleasurable for my mate. I'm not the average Jane who just wants to settle down with a house and white picket fence. No, that would be incredibly sane for me. I'm not admitting to being a wild party girl either. The clubs have never been my seen. I'm more of a get my own bottle and enjoy time with my man type of woman. However, lately I have been having these wild desires rushing through my head ever since I started reading, "50 Shades of Grey." This book is mostly appealing to me because of the type of man that I have. He is so loving and sweet to me. But he suffers from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Yes my man is a control freak. And I love every minute of it.

When my Mr. Big walks into a room you can feel his "Alpha Male" presence all around the room. I secretly watch the way women stairs at him. Instead of me being intimidated. It has been a great turn on for me. Because I know the great pleasure he gives me when we are alone. My wild imagination has been running wild for some time now. I finally decided to introduce some bondage into my sex life. Not thinking he would ever go along with the idea. I just wanted to try something new for us. And to my surprise, he was more excited about the idea than me.

 

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I walked into the Lion’s Den Adult Store with a little fear in my mind. Because I felt like I was finally letting my inner goddess do the thinking for me. And I think she is a bad girl with the thoughts of "Pain & Pleasure" on her mind. The sexiest thing about BDSM is only you & your mate get to connect with each other on a higher level by allowing trust to guide your relationship. At least this is the way we started out.

That day in the Adult Store I bought handcuffs with cheetah print fur, a black blind fold with a black gag ball attached to it, and a nice small bullet for my own pleasure. Of course I got some edible lubrication because every man wants a good blow job. So while they are receiving pleasure you should always get a nice taste in your mouth. I almost forgot to mention I bought some anal crème too. My man has been begging me to let him try that on me for years now. I finally got the nerve to say yes. I even bought a paddle too but I just threw it behind the bed. This is still BDSM for beginners, we can play hard later. Let's just say that day and night ended in "Pain & Extreme Pleasure."